Here are 75 relationship quotes gathered from our sister site, Everyday Life Lessons, to help you keep things in perspective and move your relationships in a positive direction. 本文75则情感格言，帮助你正确地处理感情事物，促进你的情感关系朝着积极的方向发展。 1. In life you’ll realize there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you. 生活中，你会发现每个所遇到的人，都有其意义所在。有的人会考验你，有的人会利用你，有的人会指导你。而有的人会激发出最优秀的你，这才是最重要的。 2. Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, let them go. 珍惜那些真正爱自己，促进自己，鼓励自己，提高自己和让自己快乐的人。放手那些不能带给自己这些的人。 3. Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can. 爱情不是性关系，不是浪漫的约会，也不是虚荣心的炫耀；而是和一个能让自己快乐的人在一起。 4. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring – all of which have the potential to turn a life around. 我们常常低估了一次抚摸的力量，一个微笑的魅力，一句亲切的话语，一颗倾听的心，一个诚实的赞美，或是最细微的关怀——而所有这些，都有可能改变我们的生活。 5. The most beautiful thing is to see a person you love smiling. And even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason behind it. 最美好的事情就是你看着他/她，脸上充满的笑意；更为美妙的是，你知道这是为什么。 6. Choose your relationships wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. 谨慎的选择一段感情，宁缺毋滥。 7. Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone. 孤单不代表寂寞，寂寞不需要孤单。 8. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely. 爱上一个人是在自己合适的时候，而不是在自己寂寞的时候。 9. Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. 爱意味着给别人伤害自己的机会，但要相信自己不会被伤害。 10. You know you’ve found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with the same person over and over again. 当你发现自己一次次爱上同一个人的时候，你已经找到了自己的真爱。 11. Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life. Rather, be the right person to come to someone’s life. 不要等着合适的人走进自己的生活，而是要成为那个合适的人走进他/她的生活。 12. The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst. 注定的爱情，不仅鼓励你成为最棒的自己，同时在你最困难的时候，仍然爱着你，接受你，在你身边不离不弃。 13. Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. 永远不要把一个人看成自己一切，而让自己成为他/她可有可无的备胎。 14. Some relationships are like glass. It’s better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more by trying to put it back together. 有些感情就像玻璃镜子一样，碎了就碎了，不要为了破镜重圆再次伤害自己。 15. Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does. 不要仅仅因为一个不在乎你的人而忽略所有在乎你的人。 16. Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. 你的正确并不一定意味着别人的错误。 17. It is okay to be angry. It is never okay to be cruel. 生气是正常的，但使人痛苦是不对的。 18. Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset. 不要因为一时的伤心而做出永远后悔的傻事儿。 19. Silence is often the loudest cry. Pay attention to those you care about. 沉默是最有力的哭泣，要多关心自己在乎的人。 20. We don’t always need advice. Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand. 我们并不总是需要建议。有时只需要一只紧握的手，一个倾听的耳朵，一颗理解的心。 21. It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel. 你说什么并不重要，重要的是给人的感觉。 22. A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart. 伤心难过的时候，一个默默的拥抱胜过前言万语。 23. Don’t mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours. 不要因为自己的徘徊而陷入感情漩涡。 24. True happiness comes from within, not from someone else. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy. 真正的快乐是来自内心的，不是别人带给的。不要错误地认为等待一个人或一件事的出现会让自己快乐。 25. Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world, choose the one who makes your world beautiful. 不要选择这个世界认为美好的事或人，而要选择让自己成为这个世界美好的那个事或人。 26. If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s been weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you. 当你感到自己的船在下沉的时候，最好扔掉船上承重的东西。放开让你伤心的那些人，拥抱发掘你美的那些人。 27. Just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while. 不要因为一段情不能长久，就意味着不值得拥有。 28. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t expect others to read your mind, and don’t play games with their heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out. Half-truths are no better than lies. And don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words. 说你所想，表里如一。不要指望别人来读懂你的心思，也不要玩弄猜心游戏。不要讲半真半假的谎话，真相大白时还指望别人相信你。因为半真半假的谎话也是谎话。不要忽略自己在乎的人，因为缺乏关心和气话一样伤人。 29. Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones. 谎言长久不宜，因此：1）如果你不是真心，不要说“我爱你”。2）如果你毫不知情，不要说“我理解”。3）如果你没有歉意，不要说“对不起”。4）真诚地对待自己和自己所爱的人。 30. Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you. 不要撒谎，否则总有一天有人会揭露真相。 31. Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together. 幸福的感情不是自然而然的，而是要花时间和耐心，两个人真心努力在一起所有的。 32. Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is. 恋爱不需要选择，守住爱情才需要。 33. Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts. 爱情本不伤人。伤人的是感情的欺骗和背叛。 34. When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything. 对于感情，保持忠贞不是可有可无，而是必须的。忠贞是爱情的一切。 35. A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences. 幸福的爱情两要素：第一，欣赏彼此相似之处；第二，尊重对方不同之处。 36. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else blessings instead of your own. Don’t waste your time on jealousy. The only person you’re competing against is yourself. 嫉妒是抛开自己的幸运，而只计数他人幸运的艺术。不要把自己的时间浪费在嫉妒上，我们自己才是自己唯一的劲敌。 37. Do not become possessive. The purpose of a relationship is to complement each other, grow together, and achieve your common goals as a couple. At the same time, you must each maintain your individual identity as a human being. 爱情的意义不是占有，而是为了相得益彰，共同成长，一起实现共同目标结为连理；同时，在感情中双方保持自我。 38. Don’t ever change just to impress someone. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a better future. 改变自己，让自己更优秀，未来更美好。永远不要刻意为他人而改变自己。 39. Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others, but don’t lose your own voice. 付出而不被利用，倾听而不失自我的声音。 40. Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look forsomeone who will face them with you. 不要等待有人来解决你所有的问题，要去寻找一个愿意和自己一起解决问题的人。 41. You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely. 你真的不需要一个人来完美自己，只需要一个人彻底地接纳自己。 42. Speak when you are very angry, and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret. 生气时所言必将后悔。 43. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Let it go. 放开怨恨，怨恨是幸福的毒药。 44. As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones. 随着年纪的增长，我们意识到，朋友的数量不再重要，重要的是朋友的质量。 45. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. 生病的时候，工作不会照顾你，但朋友会。请时常联系你的朋友。 46. Respect is earned, honesty is appreciated, trust is gained, and loyalty is returned. 争取的是尊重，欣赏的是诚实，赢得的是信任，回报的是忠心。 47. Never waste a moment, it may be the last with someone you love. 珍惜在一起的每分每秒，因为，有可能这是最后一次和你爱的人在一起。 48. If you love someone, tell them. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is really ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in them. 爱他/她，就告诉他/她。不要被规则束缚，不要害怕被笑。因为真正好笑的是失去表白自己内心的机会。 49. Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, someone they need, or something they thought was meant to be. But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future opportunities. 一个人的人生总是要失去所爱的人、所需的人、又或者理所当然的事物。但正是因为这些失去，让我们更加坚强，最终走向未来的成功。 50. Never stop doing little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts. 坚持从小事帮助他人，有时，对需要的人而言，小帮助却是大恩德。 51. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you. 人生最美好的时光就是和自己在乎的人一起度过的无数个欢乐的时刻。 52. A real person is not perfect, and a perfect person is not real. 现实中的人都不是完美的，完美的人不是真实存在的。 53. To the world, you might be just one person. But to one person, you might be the world. 对全世界而言，你只是一个个体；但对某个人而言，你却是他/她的全部世界。 54. Just because you have a past with someone, doesn’t mean you should have a future with them. 你参与了他/她的过去，不代表你能拥有他/她的未来。 55. No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones. 没有一段感情是浪费时间的，错误的选择是为对的感情做准备。 56. The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to move forward is the happiest. 最先道歉的人是最勇敢的，最先原谅的人是最坚持的，最先放手过去的人是最幸福的。 57. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it. 如果一段感情需要保密，你就不该卷进去。 58. Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words. 观察一个人的行为，你永远不会被其所言愚弄。 59. When the pain of holding on is worse than the pain of letting go, it is time to let go. 如果一段感情坚持比放手更痛苦，那是时候该放手了。 60. If a friend is in trouble, don’t bother them by asking if there is anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it. 如果朋友陷入麻烦，不要去问有什么可以做的，而是看看有什么你能够帮忙的然后做就可以了。 61. Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We do not always need an intelligent mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens. 有时，关心比正确更重要。我们不是总需要智慧的建议，而是一颗聆听的心。 62. Be the friend that you want to have. 想要什么样的朋友，先成为这样的朋友吧。 63. There are times when family are like strangers, and strangers are like family. Both sets of people are priceless. 有时家人就像陌生人，而陌生人却像家人，但他们都是无价的，不可或缺。 64. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past. 与所爱的人发生分歧时，只论眼前之事，不可再提陈年旧事。 65. Instead of judging people by their past, stand by them and help repair their future. 不要从一个人的过去来断定一个人，而要支持他们，帮助他们整理未来。 66. Don’t try to be everything to everyone. Be everything to someone. 不要试图成为每个人的一切，成为一个人的一切就够了。 67. Let us remember that we can’t force anyone to love us. We can’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave and be with someone else. This is what love is all about. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson. 记住：我们不能强迫任何人爱我们。当他们因为别人而要离开时，我们不能祈求他/她留下。这就是爱情。然而，爱情的结束并不意味着一个人人生的结束，而是明白爱情为什么离开的开始，一定要从中得到教训。 68. When things fall apart, consider the possibility that life knocked it down on purpose. Not to bully you, or to punish you, but to prompt you to build something that better suits your personality and your purpose. Sometimes things fall apart so better things can fall together. 当事情失败时，也许是生活故意为之。不要自责，也不要惩罚自己，而是要提醒自己建立更适合自己性格和目的的事情。有时，事情的失败是为了更好的事情的汇聚。 69. Everyone wants a perfect ending. But over the years I’ve learned that some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next. 每个人生都想要一个完美结局。但这些年我发现，最美的诗歌并不全都押韵，许多杰出的故事并不都有清楚的开头、高潮或结尾。生活是未知的，接受改变，活在当下，演绎自我精彩；不需要知道下一刻将发生什么。 70. In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So stay in touch with those who truly matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort. 人与人关系的距离，不是用英里丈量，而是用感情衡量。有人近在咫尺，却远在天边。与自己真正在乎的人，请保持联系。不是图方便，而是因为他们值得额外的付出。 71. Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars. 不要仅仅因为自己认为他们会永远在身边，而忽略自己最重要的人。因为某天清晨醒来，你会发现自己数了星星，却失去了月亮。 72. True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated. 真爱不是难舍难分，而是即使分离，彼此的心真实可鉴。 73. True friendship and true love do sustain the tests of distance and time. 真正的友情和爱情能经历时间和距离的考验。 74. When someone gives you their time, they are giving you a portion of their life that they will never get back. It’s one of the most precious gifts you can receive. Don’t waste it. 当一个人为你花时间时，他赠与你的是自己一去不复返的时光。这是你能收到的最珍贵的礼物，请珍惜它吧。 75. Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end. 幸福的感情不仅仅是一起度过的美好时光，而是在一起经历生活的艰辛后，你仍然对他/她说“我爱你”。 |
